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Welcome to SpiralMuse Family, where women can share and connect about motherhood, being a daughter, pregnancy, birth, relationships and what it is to be woman across the globe. What ideas and resources do you have to share? Send an email to family with personal expressions and resources.

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2008:
5th day of the month
 

C h i l d r e n answering the question:

"What  is love" ?

"When Someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy- age  7

"Love is when a  girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."
Karl - age 5

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."
Chrissy - age  6

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age  4

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip  before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." Danny -  age  7

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss"
Emily - age  8

"Love  is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."    
Bobby - age 7  (Wow!)

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you  hate,"
Nikka - age  6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this  planet)

"Love is when you  tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."   
Noelle - age 7

"Love is like a  little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even  after they know each other so well."
Tommy - age 6

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the  people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was  the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
Cindy - age  8

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."
Clare - age  6

"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."
Elaine-age  5

"Love is when  Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer  than Robert Redford ."
Chris -  age 7

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all  day."
Mary Ann - age  4

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to  go out and buy new ones."  
Lauren - age  4

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars  come out of you." (what an image)
Karen - age 7

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's  gross."
Mark - age  6

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you  mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."     
Jessica  - age 8

And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about  a contest he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the contest was  to find the most caring child.

The winner was a four year old child  whose next door neighbour was an elderly gentleman who had recently  lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into  the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat  there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbour,  the little boy said,"Nothing, I just helped him  cry"


Like Mother Like Daughter
By Sierra J Sullivan

I love my mother- she was an amazing soul who taught my sisters and me many wonderful things about life, character, beauty and womanhood. She worked really hard to raise four young girls to be smart, strong and successful women and she did an excellent job- we're living proof. Although our mother is no longer with us, physically, we still hold a piece of her spirit within our hearts. For better or for worse, this energy can create patterns of thoughts about who we are and how we view ourselves.

MORE>>



Kristen's story


Technically my 4 month old son, Jake, was conceived in Mexico after a night of dancing and tequila, but really he was conceived in an Arete Women's Circle in early 2005 when I spoke forth the possibility of being a mother into the circle.  (Along with all my fears and trepidation.) 

When my sweet little baby boy wakes, I spy on him.  I notice that he takes his time. With eyes still closed and bottom lip jutted out, and he stretches his tiny limbs through their full range of motion.  He reaches his arms high above his head and kicks his legs as if in a miniature synchronized swimming routine.  Then he opens his big blue eyes and he slowly unfolds to the world ready to accept whatever newness the day may bring with curiosity and wonder.  And then I peer into his crib, hovering over him until he catches my gaze and his faces breaks into the most glorious gummy stoned grin that says "There you are Blonde Freckled Lady with the Milk - I LOVE YOU!"

Every doubt I've had as to whether taking a spin on this great big ball was worth it.. this daily greeting has vaporized every one.

 - Kristin Slye


Words of wisdom from children:

Pulling onto a crowded I-80.
Dad: oh, no! traffic!
Eva (age 4): dad, the traffic needs us! The traffic loves us! The traffic speeds up immediately.

As her parents try to maintain a cuddly weekend sleep-in: Eva (age 4): if you're going to do that, can we watch a movie?
Coral (age 2): I want you, daddy. Out of my way, mommy!

Eva, aged four, and her mummy, Rosy, were standing in line at the supermarket. Eva says to the parents of a new born next to them in line, "Can I have a playdate with your baby when he's old enough?"
Nothing like forward planning in this day and age!

Eva then began openly staring at a woman wearing quite a bit of make-up. She turned to Rosy and said, "I was just admiring that woman's face." She then turns right back and continues her staring for a good long minute!


FAMILY ASTROLOGY on Mothering.com

Curious about your baby, child and/or teen's astrological sign? Wonder about sibling compatibility? Find out more on Mothering Magazine's website www.mothering.com


Environmentally conscious parents

The web sites below might be of some help in reducing pesticides and eliminating hunger, increasing native plants and increasing native fish not killed by pesticide run off.

Sustainable Technologies for eradicating Hunger & improving the environment
http://www.100megs29.com/~imcwpg/item.php?1465S

For the Liberation of Seeds - Saving our natural seed stock from GM Crops
primalseeds.org/OTHERSTUFF/new/kokopellip.htm

Organic Technology for Gardeners and Farmers
melbourne.indymedia.org/news/2005/06/92738.php

Renewable Energy
southafrica.indymedia.org/news/2005/06/8369.php


Jeremy's wish, 8 years old

My wish is George Bush opens his heart to Buddha
And when he does, all of Bush's anger pops out and
Buddha changes the anger into respect and kindness and sends it back to George Bush

(Jeremy sent this to NineWishes project. See the left hand column of the Arts section for more>>)


NEWS from RUBYBLEU foundation

Women's Work
By Katalin Koda



Throughout the world, women are the central point of family life. They continuously look out for the family and its best interests oftentimes using compassion and foresight to make decisions, which then benefit the entire community. In India , women are born second class and expected to serve the family duties of cleaning house, cooking, washing clothes, collecting firewood and water, and tending the younger children and any domesticated animals. These duties begin at a young age and continue throughout the girl's life until she is married at a high dowry cost. Many times she is uneducated and only knows her duty to her family as her only defining place in the world. After an arranged marriage, the young woman is usually sent to her new husband's house where the man's family then expects her to continue with the chores of keeping up and running a household. MORE>>

What is the RUBYBLEU Foundation?
The beginning...


Childhood Obesity in the Public Schools
by Karen Saura, MH

Childhood obesity is rapidly becoming a major health issue for American children. Because children spend so much of their time in schools and so many of our children attend school through out national public school systems, school food programs stand out as a natural place to look to if we want to shift this national trend in a more positive and healthy direction. Exploring the role food programs in the public schools play in childhood obesity is a good place to begin, both as a part of the problem and as a part of the solution.   MORE>>

 

 

 
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Musings
 

"We don't accomplish anything in this world alone ... and whatever happens is the result of the whole tapestry of one's life and all the weavings of individual threads from one to another that creates something."
- Sandra Day O'Connor

"One generation plants the trees; another gets the shade."
- Chinese Proverb

"Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once
she grows up."
- Pablo Picasso


 

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DRILLING FOR HOPE
Reprint from "Mothering" Magazine
www.mothering.com

During times in our lives when we feel oppressed or dominated by others, it can be difficult to remain hopeful or to feel powerful. The early days and weeks of motherhood are one of those times. We love the baby madly, but mourn the loss of control over our own lives. In order to regain a semblance of control, we learn new attitudes and habits for tough times. -- More>>


Acknowlegments...how to acknowledge our loved ones? More>>


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